|
Post by Einhorn on Jun 29, 2023 16:06:48 GMT
It's not as if the OP wasn't discussed. It was for à few posts, then branched out into some organic shape with a mind of its own. I don't object to that of course but then it came back to the first premise. So the whole thread became a mess , which is why I wondered where the 6 mods are. Can we please just remember that if you want to slag someone off, don't do it in here? There is the whole rest of the site in which to throw snowballs. Yes, but it was always going to veer off course if Carty wasn't around to guide it. Keep your expectations realistic.
|
|
|
Post by oracle75 on Jun 29, 2023 16:10:13 GMT
I don't see why discussing human nature, à non aligned neutral subject, should descend into à défense of the right to verbally abuse others. However there is a possibility that the OP knew exactly what he was doing, put two cocks into the ring and sat back to watch the inevitable result.. I would disagree. Putting a point up for debate in the Mind Zone should encourage actual debate of the points in a reasoned and polite fashion free from sarcasm, rudeness, name calling, references to intelligence or the lack thereof and indeed comments that say nothing. People may tend to get a bit excited but it's politics. I would hardly say human nature is a non aligned neutral subject. Well I would say that commenting on human nature is objective enough. It is the responses which may not be. But we can agree to differ.
|
|
|
Post by oracle75 on Jun 29, 2023 16:11:16 GMT
It was for à few posts, then branched out into some organic shape with a mind of its own. I don't object to that of course but then it came back to the first premise. So the whole thread became a mess , which is why I wondered where the 6 mods are. Can we please just remember that if you want to slag someone off, don't do it in here? There is the whole rest of the site in which to throw snowballs. Yes, but it was always going to veer off course if Carty wasn't around to guide it. Keep your expectations realistic. That is why I asked where the mods have been. Is Carty à mod?
|
|
|
Post by Einhorn on Jun 29, 2023 16:18:38 GMT
Yes, but it was always going to veer off course if Carty wasn't around to guide it. Keep your expectations realistic. That is why I asked where the mods have been. Is Carty à mod? Yes, Carty's a mod. But that wasn't what I meant. If you start a thread and don't hang around to answer questions on the OP or expand on it, then the thread is going to veer off course. Carty's busy, so he's not here to guide the thread. It's gone off course, and that's to be expected. It's not a big deal. Moderating isn't an exact science and threads evolve naturally.
|
|
|
Post by Vinny on Jun 29, 2023 16:23:25 GMT
Reflecting on fifteen years of participation in online politics discussion (pofo.org; pofoUK and this place), I have been endlessly both fascinated and horrified at the psychology behind so many exchanges one can read. The polarity and binary thought on display is staggering, in an arena wherein the object should be to find solutions to society's problems. There are structural factors, too, such as our adversarial, 'debating society' model of parliament, which subliminally entrenches that polarity and partisanship, but it is the deeper psychology I find interesting. Here is something lifted from Twitter, by Prof Jonathan Shedler, a psychology professor from UCSF. Severe personality problems find camouflage. No one thinks "I'm a sadist" or "I'm a malignant narcissist." They find a belief system/social group that validates their most hateful, destructive impulses and construes them as virtues. The most toxic and hateful people in the world are 100% convinced they fight for what is true and right. They find a way to give free rein to their cruelty, to attack, to treat others cruelly and viciously. And they find allies to cheer them on, who also believe they are on the side of all that is true and good.
For colleagues looking for more theoretical explanation, the psychological processes are splitting, projection and projective identification. Splitting means not recognizing one's own capacity for hate, cruelty, and destructiveness. The person is blind to the bad in themselves. Instead, they project the badness onto some designated other. And this other person, via the defence of projection, is now seen as the repository of all that is bad and evil and necessary to destroy. That's the projection.
The person now feels fully justified in unleashing their viciousness and hate on the other person, who is now seen (via projection) as someone monstrous who must be destroyed. If the person who is projected on responds to the provocation with anger, this is now seen as further confirmation of how hateful and destructive they are (this is what is called is "projective identification.") The end result is that the person can deny their own sadism, cruelty, and hate—while simultaneously acting it out without restraint. And feel themselves to be 100% on the side of truth and right as they do it.
In more everyday language, what it boils down to for me is two factors: First, people on all sides of politics allow themselves to believe that only they and their allies speak the truth. Ergo, everyone else is deluded. Second, having convinced themselves of the 'truth' of their position, they feel justified in simply not caring about the impact their 'truth' might have on others. You'll notice I have not made any party references. This phenomenon knows no party boundaries and can be traced back to Greece and Rome. What has potentiated and accelerated it in the last decade or so has been social media. Prior to Twitter et al, one's only option was the apocryphal letter to the (broadsheet) paper from the eponymous 'Outraged of Tonbridge Wells'. Now anyone and everyone can, if they wish, comment in real time on the opinion of anyone else and, let's be frank, most of those comments tend to be aggressively ad hominem and without substance. Taking this place as an example, few threads last more than half a dozen posts before they descend into aggressive, ad hominem attacks that add nothing to the discussion. I hardly post these days, precisely because of that phenomenon. When I see a topic of interest, unless it's only recently been posted it will have degenerated into a slanging match between polarised groups and any comment I might make in relation to the OP gets lost in the bar fight. Unfortunately, a vocal minority only log in for those bar fights. The same has become true of the political world upon which we come here to comment. 'Personality politics' and populism have wrought a political landscape in which little meaningful discussion can take place, thanks to the entrenchment of polarised thinking and the consolidation of notions of righteousness in those polarised positions. Or as John Cleese put it: "The great thing about having enemies is that you can pretend that all the badness in the whole world is in your enemies and all the goodness in the whole world is in you. Attractive isn't it? So if you have a lot of anger and resentment in you anyway and you therefore enjoy abusing people then you can pretend that you're only doing it because these enemies of yours are such very bad persons. And that if it wasn't for them you'd actually be good-natured and courteous and rational all the time."
|
|
|
Post by oracle75 on Jun 29, 2023 16:28:18 GMT
@ Darling
I did ask the question ironically. But in rereading the OP i think he is more interested in confirming the content of it either for fun or for letting members prove his point, as if we were lab rats. Either way, i think his quoted conclusions were correct. Which in actual fact is quite sad.
|
|
|
Post by thomas on Jun 29, 2023 17:43:44 GMT
Whats wrong with offensive words?
In glasgow , saying alright ya C##t is considered a form of welcome .
I don't give a toss what it means in Glasgow. There is an accepted form of conversation which is neutral and mutually respectable. This is as I understand it, open to the public. It is not a Glasgow pub or street. equally i couldnt give a toss what you think is an accepted form of conversation , or how you view a debate should be conducted.
When you are either forum owner , or a mod , then you get to dictate to others the marquis of queensberry rules of debating.
Until then , people will carry on debating in their own unique styles , within the rules and moderation , as they wish.
|
|
|
Post by oracle75 on Jun 29, 2023 18:13:11 GMT
Please note that it was the mods, not me, who designated the Mind Zone "for polite conversation only".
Since we are now in the Mind Zone at the moment, you might like to rephrase your aggressive post according to the rules, as you suggest.
If you have a problem with that, please look up the word "polite" and address the 6.
How you speak to others elsewhere is of no interest to me other than to suggest a certain image.
|
|
|
Post by Toreador on Jun 29, 2023 18:48:14 GMT
Please note that it was the mods, not me, who designated the Mind Zone "for polite conversation only".Since we are now in the Mind Zone at the moment, you might like to rephrase your aggressive post according to the rules, as you suggest. If you have a problem with that, please look up the word "polite" and address the 6. How you speak to others elsewhere is of no interest to me other than to suggest a certain image. The Mind Zone was generated for more civilised discussion partly at the request of some members. What it has achieved is to protect those who don't want to be bowled out, those who want to protect themselves from criticism. Sadly, many of those are the worse debaters and often the worst trolls.
|
|
|
Post by oracle75 on Jun 29, 2023 20:18:39 GMT
Please note that it was the mods, not me, who designated the Mind Zone "for polite conversation only".Since we are now in the Mind Zone at the moment, you might like to rephrase your aggressive post according to the rules, as you suggest. If you have a problem with that, please look up the word "polite" and address the 6. How you speak to others elsewhere is of no interest to me other than to suggest a certain image. The Mind Zone was generated for more civilised discussion partly at the request of some members. What it has achieved is to protect those who don't want to be bowled out, those who want to protect themselves from criticism. Sadly, many of those are the worse debaters and often the worst trolls. I note that by contributing to the thread, you feel you would like to join them.
|
|
Deleted
Deleted Member
Posts: 0
|
Post by Deleted on Jun 29, 2023 21:26:50 GMT
You are missing the whole issue. Thr subject is how people talk to each other in this zone...THE MIND ZONE. Which is described as "for polite conversation only: but has been "invaded" by those who aren't sure how to be polite. Go ahead and use the strongest language you think will change anything ( it wont) but do it somewhere else. Not in THIS area. And while I am on a keyboard I understand there are 6 mods. We are now into the 5th page of this thread. It has covered the use of language, Corbyn, the last election, and even à mention ( no surprises here) of Brexit...JoG said his post should be in another thread. Why then did he post it in here? So far I don't think I have seen a single mod post to this thread, except one who was actually the one who mentioned Brexit. Frankly no comment among 6 mods is ...surprising. Frankly I can't remember who they are because only à couple seem to do anything at all. After 5 pages of défense of bad language in an area which is said to be polite, plus multiple off topic posts, Perhaps one of the Magnificent 6 might put in an appearance?
Well there have already been 3 moderators contributing to this thread, but you cannot force people to post. As a general point about the level of moderation of Mind Zone - if a post is reported it is generally acted on fairly swiftly. Otherwise control of what gets posted is reliant on a moderator happening to read the thread - we dont spend 24/7 searching through each thread looking for offences against the rules. I would just personally say that those who complain about the level of moderation tend not to be shy at responding in kind to some of the playground insults we get - so I end up deleting a lot of back and forth between posters where if they had just reported the original post and then refrained from replying in kind, we wouldn't be seeing so many off topic contributions. Mea Culpa here. I am sometimes guilty of that very thing. Whilst I report rule breaking posts in the mind zone, I am not averse to responding in kind to those who choose to make personal attacks or digs, resulting in a fruitless exchange of insults the entirety of which ends up being deleted. Bad habit of mine I need to work on. I tend too readily to be a troll feeder. Apologies.
|
|
Deleted
Deleted Member
Posts: 0
|
Post by Deleted on Jun 29, 2023 21:35:40 GMT
Please note that it was the mods, not me, who designated the Mind Zone "for polite conversation only".Since we are now in the Mind Zone at the moment, you might like to rephrase your aggressive post according to the rules, as you suggest. If you have a problem with that, please look up the word "polite" and address the 6. How you speak to others elsewhere is of no interest to me other than to suggest a certain image. The Mind Zone was generated for more civilised discussion partly at the request of some members. What it has achieved is to protect those who don't want to be bowled out, those who want to protect themselves from criticism. Sadly, many of those are the worse debaters and often the worst trolls. I suspect that you are equating people you disagree with with bad debaters. lol
|
|
|
Post by Cartertonian on Jul 1, 2023 8:58:56 GMT
Well, well, well... Based on previous experience, I expected this thread to fizzle out very quickly...not run to six pages. When I have time later today I will revisit the thread and actually read what's going on. I suspect what has been going on prompted TSM's 'Mindless Zone' thread.
|
|
|
Post by oracle75 on Jul 1, 2023 10:31:22 GMT
I am surprised you thought a description of reasons for lack of objectivity would not evolve into its own proof. I admire your optimism.
|
|
|
Post by Orac on Jul 1, 2023 10:39:52 GMT
This thread might have been a 'healing moment'
..but, of course, it wasn't. lol
Perhaps we can all learn something from our experiences in this thread
|
|